Claudia Breakup
May. 11th, 2005 02:07 pmTwo nights ago, Claudia and I decided to end our relationship in 8 days. We were originally going to break up that night, but decided to wait until she left for the summer. True to statistics, our relationship was exactly 2.5 years long.
Off and on, this has been a long time coming (although this was more an off time (things were going well)), but nothing specific precipitated it. Claudia is going to spend the summer in Florida with her prior-secondary, working out a grant she got with another friend. We had a long talk about what was going to happen over the summer and beyond. There's always been some stress in our relationship stemming from each other's behavior, and Claudia said that she wanted a family some day, but not with me because of the stresses and our different paths; I said that I didn't want to continue the relationship with that kind of known ceiling. We spoke truthfully, and shed tears, and did the breakup-thing as best we each knew how. Still, there's something stupid in the sense we're following, when we both still love each other so much.
( Some interesting points )
Off and on, this has been a long time coming (although this was more an off time (things were going well)), but nothing specific precipitated it. Claudia is going to spend the summer in Florida with her prior-secondary, working out a grant she got with another friend. We had a long talk about what was going to happen over the summer and beyond. There's always been some stress in our relationship stemming from each other's behavior, and Claudia said that she wanted a family some day, but not with me because of the stresses and our different paths; I said that I didn't want to continue the relationship with that kind of known ceiling. We spoke truthfully, and shed tears, and did the breakup-thing as best we each knew how. Still, there's something stupid in the sense we're following, when we both still love each other so much.
( Some interesting points )